You have lost a baby and need support

During pregnancy, in difficult decision-making, and beyond. We offer digital self-help resources

Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

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We help you find answers to your most pressing questions

In addition to many extra features, this platform offers support through the following key functions:

Navigation tools

There are different reasons that bring you to us. Our pathfinders offer you situation-based access to relevant topics.

Topics

Our pathways lead you step by step to the topics that matter most to you.

FAQ & more

Find answers to frequently asked questions and additional resources to support your grieving process.

Talking to others

Connect with other bereaved parents through chat, voice, or video – in one-on-one or group settings.

Our guides help you find the right path

It’s often hard to identify the information that’s truly relevant to your unique situation. Our pathways lead you step by step to the topics that matter most to you.

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The important first step

Begin your path toward self-help with the route that feels right for you.

The right stations along the way

Each pathway is designed to give you orientation through the information most relevant to your personal situation.

Keep track of essential topics

We provide clear and structured explanations of complex topics to help you understand what to consider – and where to find support.

Curated & structured
The most important information on each topic, plus additional resources.
Open to everyone
Many topics arise through conversations and shared experiences with the community.
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Are you looking for information on specific topics

Sometimes there isn’t enough time to explore a topic in depth. That’s why we’ve compiled frequently discussed areas from our community and sorted them by category.

Support & Counseling

Medical, legal, and organizational guidance during pregnancy.

Around the birth

Key aspects of giving birth to a stillborn child.

After the birth

Legal and organizational matters following the birth.

Funeral and burial

Helpful resources and guidance regarding burial and farewell.

Grief and life after loss

Support and insights to help process grief and navigate life after loss.

Reflect and share your thoughts

Our information portal supports your grieving process — in the spirit of self-help.

By writing down your thoughts and feelings, you begin to process your grief. In your personal profile, you can keep a private grief diary.

If you later choose to share parts of it with the community, you can simply change the post status from “private” to “public” — your post will then appear in the protected community area.

Safe space to connect with others

We have created a proteWe have created a secure virtual environment where you can communicate, share information, and discuss with others. There are both closed topic rooms and open discussion groups.

You can also connect privately or in small groups via text or video chat. Only verified users can access the rooms, ensuring a protected space for exchange.

Empowering self-help
Every bereaved family has its own experience and gathers individual knowledge. By sharing and supporting each other, we can better come to terms with our loss and find ways to cope.

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Join us, it's simple

Step 1: Fill out the inquiry form so our support team can get to know your situation.

Step 2: After reviewing your request, we’ll send a confirmation email with a link to the registration form.

Step 3: Enter your data and create an (optionally anonymous) user account.

Step 4: Log in and start using the platform — your login works both for the website and the support community.

Register now

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    Fill out the inquiry form

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    Receive email confirmation

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    Register

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    Get started!

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